So back in 2014 when I was 21 I was in a on again off again toxic relationship and was trying to get over him and move on so I thought i’d give dating sites a crack
I’ve posted a few times on here about some of my creepy experiences, which have received some positive feedback so I thought I’d share another.
I wasn’t used to guys trying to trick me into sex, or leading me on or even how dating really worked (how many days after the date do I have to wait to text him?
I tried a few, met a few guys. I hadn’t dated since high school as I’d been in two long term relationships fairly close together with people that I had known for a while. As i’m sure you can imagine, I was clueless. ) After a few failed attempts to find someone, I thought I’d broaden my horizons and really try to find someone serious.
At the time I Mulheres ГЌndia was talking to a couple of guys. The one that stood out was a really nice, if not slightly simple guy who I had a lot in common with, Liam. I didn’t want to put my eggs in one basket so I started talking to another guy that wasn’t really my type, physically or mentally, but he was smart and funny so I thought I’d see how things played out seeing as most of the guys that I pick based on gut feelings turn out to be terrible. This man who I nicknamed “guy” (can’t remember why now but it was a running joke between us) was very, very persistent and very cocky which I wasn’t really into, but he seemed like a cool guy on the other hand, was very knowledgeable, quick witted and easy to talk to. We spoke on the phone a few times and it was a reasonably good experience but there was something about him I just didn’t really like. As I mentioned previously, he was quite cocky and used to do little annoying things like hang up without saying goodbye and had an arrogant, pushy demeanor. One day on the phone, I pulled him up on it and told him I believed that it was all a front and that he wasn’t that arrogant and he was a lot nicer than he let on. He told me that he had an ex girlfriend who broke up with him because he was “too much of a pushover” so he decided that women like guys that were on the arrogant side. I told him I didn’t at all, and I spoke to him because I felt there was something more than that to his personality. I also picked him up on little things in his profile such as not liking “fat chicks” and other things. I am a bigger girl so I asked him if that was a problem to which he responded that it wasn’t, he had just written that to make himself look better. I accepted his excuse and hoped for the best.
I decided I needed to try different kinds of men if I wanted to find someone so I gave guy a chance. He often suggested meeting at his place over pizza and movies, which I wasn’t quite comfortable with, so I suggested he come out to a club with a few friends which he declined and tried to convince me to come back to his place to which I wasn’t really keen on. After he clicked on that I wasn’t coming over to his house in the middle of the night, he suggested we go out for coffee.